BECOME YOUR OWN MATCHMAKER

An L.A. matchmaker with her own TV show explains how a woman can find Mr. Right, attract his attention, determine his value according to her needs, and care for him properly once she knows he's the one. Stanger's assertive advice risks sounding manipulative when she says men don't like short hair, excessive weight, or hearing about a woman's accomplishments or past dating failures, but she explains that in her view these are simply the realities of attracting a man. The author sounds affirming and empowering when she advocates for no compromise on non-negotiable needs, no sex before 90 days, and an exclusive dating arrangement. As she shares fascinating anecdotes and drops the occasional F-bomb, Stanger's voice has a youthful, punky sound that gives this take-charge lesson energy and impact. T.W. © AudioFile 2009, Portland, Maine [Published: SEPTEMBER 2009]